EXPECTATIONS
Posted: 22 Oct 2015 16:04
we all have expectations even if we say (and truly believe) that we don't have any. I don't have any expectations because I know how this world works and that expectations can only harm me more than the worst possible scenario. I am also aware that I also have some latent expectations mostly covered as hopes and therefore not easy to identify as expectations at first sight. As soon as I can sort them out for myself, they are gone forever and can't trigger me = cause negative emotions in me anymore. Some of you may have come to that point as well and are able to cope with expectations, but the majority of our members and readers unfortunately can't!
Have a closer look at it and you'll realize that the whole human life is based on expectations. Some of them get fulfilled along the way, most of them not. Every disappointment, every distress is the result of some non fulfilled expectation! Have you ever thought of that in this way?
Expectations befall us every day from many different sources i.e. radio, world wide web, television, newspapers, friends, family, state, government etc. Each one of them has expectations on us and they teach us to have expectations on ourselves and on others as well. It's a vicious circle, no way out unless you recognize the problem. Once you recognize the problem, you'll be face to face with your ego(ism). You'll consider yourself a loser if you give in and don't bother doing what your expectation dictates you to do. This is where most of the people stop thinking about expectations and the damage they do. They don't want to be considered losers by giving in to the ratio. It is much easier to keep doing what others expect them to do instead to fight for their right to be "themselves" = no expectations attached.
The ones that did overcome their ego(ism) are very rare and probably not readers of our forum (sorry guys, just a truth).
One more thing to the ones that expect the savior and especially the ones that they think/believe that they don't expect the savior. Savior means in this case every person that is able to free you from illnesses or other nasty situations. Your expectations will NOT get fulfilled and they'll keep torturing you for the rest of your human life and maybe even longer than that. Claiming that you don't expect anyone to save you and put all your hope in some "spiritual leader" or even in us, you contradict yourself and expect the utmost possible, therefore a miracle. Miracles may be possible, but never ever in a light way. All miracles are dark rubbish and they could only happen because the darks broke every rule to make them happen. It is not "cool" but stupid and illegal to misuse powers. So, everyone looking for a miracle should go and find him-/herself an "ascended master" or some other dark and make deals to have the miracle done on him/her.
If you want to go the light way/our way, you'll have to be patient, get rid of burdening expectations and be prepared for hard work. It's a long way to go, but we can make it