Labels and other tiny things
Posted: 29 Jul 2014 15:05
It seems impossible to me to write down everything to this topic, and I feel it would be too long and it would make much confusion. There are parts also of this topic what I don't understand too. Because of this, I let open some questions. These are more little snippets, than logically built up information. This may help for you to discover, if you would be interested in the topic or just simply bored and in need of some input. So please along reading feel free to stop and use your intuition, imagination and associate with your experiences.
Every area of our lives give us some labels for example: child, adult. Or by what we are doing daily in our 3d life as work: the IT guy, the painter, the welder, the teacher. Then there are other kind of labels, what determines our behaviour: the rebeller, the one who is always kind with everyone, and what I like especially for some reason „the mother-in-law” (somehow the darks made some very good job with this label :D).
If we think about these labels more deeper, they are forming a hierarchical system where the labels are categorized and will look like a library catalogue. So, actually - we want it or not - we can be categorized and searchable by being put in some boxes.
Our life modell is also about, that after you got a label, you stay in it. This is what our social expectations/thinking holds fix. So according to these we try to meet the expectations, because anyway we wouldn't be normal. And hey here we got another label. You have to be ”normal”. This is that label, what most of us have to have to be able to survive. If you don't have it, and you don't behave yourself, you can expect some troubles for sure.
From this everyone can get a picture how this may look like.
The labels not bad just because they can put us into boxes, but because they are dividing us. Very good example what just happens with the labeling someone to dark and light. Or you are ugly, I am nice. Or my personal experience, when I was told that I'm a healer. When you get a so honorable title, two things can happen with you. You let yourself carried away with it or you start to hate it, feeling that it's not fitting on you at all. Thankfully of our very skillful influencers and whisperers, I had both experience. Not talking about that from that point the problems started to come up like: this is my job, that one is your job and you don't have anything to do with my job etc., so jealousy and other not so nice things came up as it can come up with whatever titles.
In normal case we would say that I wasn't able to handle the fact that I'm a healer, it was too much responsibility for me. Yes that's true too in case we think about that the above situation happened in a barrier-free environment and we suppose that I chose to be healer by myself with knowing every circumstances (what is stupidness, because no such a way that you would know about every circumstances and possibilities). But I got a label with what I tried to meet all the time not seeing that the problem is not with me, but with the title itself.
So if you feel that some part of your life is not fitting into your imagination for whatever reason, try to check if the label is fitting for you or not.
And also don't forget however it seems to be that a label is permanent, they are not. In 3d circumstances, down here it should be, if we would want to play the games what darks offered for us. But we are not stupid biorobots, who fitting into boxes, so if you feel to be an artist instead of a mathematician, give it a try, but this doesn't mean that you will want to be an atrist all the time. In a few weeks maybe you will want to be a flower.
Don't misunderstand me, I'm not saying here, to give up everything you have just to live for your dreams, but try to go over a bit your barriers, because however the dark system tries to make us only fight for our lives, we still just here to learn and experience, and part of this to try out new labels, what you feel comfortable with you, even if they seems to be ridiculous or not too useful.
We would think that the titles (yes they are labels too) and other labels would make us someone, or better or simply just useful, there can be million of reason why we want to get a label on us. And this is part of the trap too. Your belief that for being someone precious you have to get a nice label.
Maybe I made you confused here. But because we cannot ignore the fact that we are in a system with labels, I say to you to use it, but as widely and wisely as possible, but do this always by knowing that this labelling system is very far away from our true nature and the way of our understanding and thinking. This system may seem to be logical, but beside being logical we are working with associations also. And here again, not the associations which are forced into be logical, but every of us has an independent way to connect things together, to associate with each other, and because of this, the labels will always be a bit uncomfortable. So use the system freely, but don't bother yourself with expectations of the system or of yours.
Every area of our lives give us some labels for example: child, adult. Or by what we are doing daily in our 3d life as work: the IT guy, the painter, the welder, the teacher. Then there are other kind of labels, what determines our behaviour: the rebeller, the one who is always kind with everyone, and what I like especially for some reason „the mother-in-law” (somehow the darks made some very good job with this label :D).
If we think about these labels more deeper, they are forming a hierarchical system where the labels are categorized and will look like a library catalogue. So, actually - we want it or not - we can be categorized and searchable by being put in some boxes.
Our life modell is also about, that after you got a label, you stay in it. This is what our social expectations/thinking holds fix. So according to these we try to meet the expectations, because anyway we wouldn't be normal. And hey here we got another label. You have to be ”normal”. This is that label, what most of us have to have to be able to survive. If you don't have it, and you don't behave yourself, you can expect some troubles for sure.
From this everyone can get a picture how this may look like.
The labels not bad just because they can put us into boxes, but because they are dividing us. Very good example what just happens with the labeling someone to dark and light. Or you are ugly, I am nice. Or my personal experience, when I was told that I'm a healer. When you get a so honorable title, two things can happen with you. You let yourself carried away with it or you start to hate it, feeling that it's not fitting on you at all. Thankfully of our very skillful influencers and whisperers, I had both experience. Not talking about that from that point the problems started to come up like: this is my job, that one is your job and you don't have anything to do with my job etc., so jealousy and other not so nice things came up as it can come up with whatever titles.
In normal case we would say that I wasn't able to handle the fact that I'm a healer, it was too much responsibility for me. Yes that's true too in case we think about that the above situation happened in a barrier-free environment and we suppose that I chose to be healer by myself with knowing every circumstances (what is stupidness, because no such a way that you would know about every circumstances and possibilities). But I got a label with what I tried to meet all the time not seeing that the problem is not with me, but with the title itself.
So if you feel that some part of your life is not fitting into your imagination for whatever reason, try to check if the label is fitting for you or not.
And also don't forget however it seems to be that a label is permanent, they are not. In 3d circumstances, down here it should be, if we would want to play the games what darks offered for us. But we are not stupid biorobots, who fitting into boxes, so if you feel to be an artist instead of a mathematician, give it a try, but this doesn't mean that you will want to be an atrist all the time. In a few weeks maybe you will want to be a flower.
Don't misunderstand me, I'm not saying here, to give up everything you have just to live for your dreams, but try to go over a bit your barriers, because however the dark system tries to make us only fight for our lives, we still just here to learn and experience, and part of this to try out new labels, what you feel comfortable with you, even if they seems to be ridiculous or not too useful.
We would think that the titles (yes they are labels too) and other labels would make us someone, or better or simply just useful, there can be million of reason why we want to get a label on us. And this is part of the trap too. Your belief that for being someone precious you have to get a nice label.
Maybe I made you confused here. But because we cannot ignore the fact that we are in a system with labels, I say to you to use it, but as widely and wisely as possible, but do this always by knowing that this labelling system is very far away from our true nature and the way of our understanding and thinking. This system may seem to be logical, but beside being logical we are working with associations also. And here again, not the associations which are forced into be logical, but every of us has an independent way to connect things together, to associate with each other, and because of this, the labels will always be a bit uncomfortable. So use the system freely, but don't bother yourself with expectations of the system or of yours.