Lesson 6: Respect yourself!
Posted: 04 Aug 2019 19:09
Would you say that you have respected yourself at any given moment of your earthy life?
I didn't! Hard and painful to admit it, but true. I don't recall any details this very moment and it will cost me much effort to remember certain situations but this doesn't make the lack of self-respect less true.
We all (darks, dark supporters and traitors excluded!) need to keep in mind that we are beings with fully developed consciousness and we deserve respect for our mere existence. We shouldn't underestimate our value. Our human body or our earthy wealth is NOT an indicator for respect. People learnt to bow in front of (self named)authorities and especially money. Both do not deserve our respect by any means.
We owe respect to ourselves and we should do our best to keep this in mind, especially in hard situations.
# Don't let people control you with their opinion about you! They are free to think whatever their like, don't make their opinion about you to your own credo. Also remember to never take anything personally even if they are talking about you. You never know who is behind the speaking avatar and what they see/want to see in you. Take your time to analyse and reflect if you are up to it or simply ignore it.
# Don't speak bad about yourself! We all make mistakes, but we shouldn't overdo it with blaming ourselves for it. Better concentrate on their correction and learn from it.
# Control your emotions! Do not do/say things that you may regret bitterly in future. Of course talking helps clearing situations and it is quite hard to keep your mouth shut when you feel the emotions taking over, but maybe worth trying to stop your tongue in time.
Don't lower yourself to adjust to others! Be modest and thoughtful, don't show off with your skills/abilities but don't degrade yourself to accommodate others.
I didn't! Hard and painful to admit it, but true. I don't recall any details this very moment and it will cost me much effort to remember certain situations but this doesn't make the lack of self-respect less true.
We all (darks, dark supporters and traitors excluded!) need to keep in mind that we are beings with fully developed consciousness and we deserve respect for our mere existence. We shouldn't underestimate our value. Our human body or our earthy wealth is NOT an indicator for respect. People learnt to bow in front of (self named)authorities and especially money. Both do not deserve our respect by any means.
We owe respect to ourselves and we should do our best to keep this in mind, especially in hard situations.
# Don't let people control you with their opinion about you! They are free to think whatever their like, don't make their opinion about you to your own credo. Also remember to never take anything personally even if they are talking about you. You never know who is behind the speaking avatar and what they see/want to see in you. Take your time to analyse and reflect if you are up to it or simply ignore it.
# Don't speak bad about yourself! We all make mistakes, but we shouldn't overdo it with blaming ourselves for it. Better concentrate on their correction and learn from it.
# Control your emotions! Do not do/say things that you may regret bitterly in future. Of course talking helps clearing situations and it is quite hard to keep your mouth shut when you feel the emotions taking over, but maybe worth trying to stop your tongue in time.
Don't lower yourself to adjust to others! Be modest and thoughtful, don't show off with your skills/abilities but don't degrade yourself to accommodate others.